First of all: I'm starting to feel like I'm always writing something informational everyday. And this comes from one who hates writing long essays and hardly picks up a book unless it got pictures smh lol. BACK TO THE STORY
...So I check out the FACE like usual today and I saw something...well...unexpected I would like to call it. After months of goin back n forth, and a whole lotta "hatred" goin on towards eachother, Someone friend requested the other and now they're friends on the FACE. It's funny to me cuz I type witnessed both sides of the playing field while they were racing towards a finish line dat kept pushing itself back, or taping itself up to start a new race. But I'm kinda happy they moved forward, cuz they were hurting eachother as much as themselves...emotionally anyway lol. So that brings me to the question: can friends really be former enemies?
So I thought about it. And thought. Til I hit the realization: it really depends. You have to start lookin at it first of all by wondering: Why are we fighting? When it comes to guys, it's mostly an ego case or a sense of disrespect upon property. Females, however, fight just cuz it's in their blood. Nah I'm kidding. But seriously, its usually deals with one girl suffering from a case of HATING/JEALOUSY, usually deriving from looks, to lifestyle, but usually..ABOUT A GUY. There is a sense of the "I'm right/You're wrong" or "This is MINE" syndrome being passed around like wildfire and BAM!!! They scratching off like cats in a small room n they claustrophobic. Sometimes the reason can be worse...but for women it's USUALLY unlikely. Depending on the girls, it can get violent, and they usually bring they whole crew down with em. Crazy world aint it?
So how do they call it all off. Guys usually forget bout it and say whatever, we poppin bottles the next day...unless it's gang related so thats a forever thing lol. Women...they just reach some type of agreement or talk it out and most of the time that works. Like I said, however it depends on how much they realize how stupid the reason is. I've seen some newly made companionships that I would look at n go, "HUH?" or "OH WOW!" But girls SOMETIMES realize that they aren't really that different from their enemy, but rather their environment shows them somethin else....
BUT. Honestly. All jokes aside. Majority of the time, when some make up, but they usually don't let go of SHIT. I don't give a fuck how buddy-buddy you look right NOW. Some just want peace so they can actually see their enemy outside of a warzone. And if they the same person you remember bickerin wit, then enemies you shall stay....
In the end, verbal and physical violence is never the answer when you're fighting over something dumb. Think about this: What's the use of fighting over something, When it's obvious that they're not fighting for you? I know one person from MAPLEWOOD that we COULDN'T STAND eachother, but now we family. Crazy how some things go. Just know this: You can forgive and forget. But in instinct, you're PROBABLY keepin ya friends close, AND YA ENEMIES CLOSER. Just Sayin. Now Imma go cook some Franch Toast. I know It's 5pm don't judge me DAMMIT lol. Respect My Vision. Understand My Grind. Heart On My Sleeve =X
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