It's A Wrap!! Responsibly: The Breakup Theory

Breaking Up. I hate it. Especially when u lose someone you thought it was the right one. When you break up with someone, you break someone else's heart...right? Or is there something deeper than that? I actually thought about the theory of breaking up or losing love. The person that gets their heart broken first, isn't the actual one getting hurt first...sounds weird right? Actually the fact of the matter is that the heartbreakers usually got their heart broken durin the relationship. Cuz most don't do it just cuz it's that time of the month lol. The heartbroken did something to ignite pain inside of their partner towards them. Some could be as simple as paying attention to something else for a second. Or it can be as complex as breaking a rule of ethics made in their relationship. At that very moment, that person is heart broken. Feelings don't have to show it, but it's obvious love for that person has started to falter. Then soon enough everything related to that first issue annoys you, then it builds...and builds...and builds...and suddenly...you go FUCK IT. Relationship finito, and the brokenhearted lookin type dumbfounded...unless it was talked about already, but stuff never changed. There is also a difference between breaking up and letting go. You can breakup but still have an attachment, or still have some unfinished business between the two. Fix that before you try to consider goin 2 a new relationship. The other ships it's whatever cuz you're not tryna keep em anyway lol. But seriously, like one of my mottos say, when it comes to extra baggage in a relationship, WE OFF DAT. Unfortunately, it takes a while for people (ex. Me) to learn these things and then shit goes a bit...awry lol. However, my mistakes develop my advice to all of those in and out of love. Don't fret if you don't listen 2 me though. You live and you learn. When it comes to young relationships; they come and they go. Just make sure the right one doesn't slip away. Respect My Vision. Understand My Grind. Heart On My Sleeve =X