For a while I've looked at my fellow man and wondered...WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YALL?? Why are bitch ass niggas gettin all the girls? Why nice guys finish last? Do any of them actually think before they leap?? The answer may surprise you. It's yes and no. Hear me out first....
A dude that doesn't give a fuck ACTUALLY started his life giving a fuck. Crazy right? In a relationship, talkship, or fuckship, there are certain types of limits and boundaries that are taken into consideration...kinda. For some reason, guys are more likely to push the limits and see what will set the female off goin "okay, enough is enough" Unfortunatley, if a girl says nothing, the dude goes crazy with his limits and why?!?! Cuz the girl isn't taking action. Then he takes it upon himself to dip n find a new chick, ignorant to the fact that his ways probably won't work on the next one.
A nice guy on the other hand basically does all the right things in order to make his girl happy. Good right??? WRONG. For some reason, girls like that...to an extent. Soon enough, she tryna test him the same way a bitch ass dude would treat them. They finally get the chance to take advantage so they will push the boundaries. Depending on how much of a good dude he is, he probably won't do a DAMN thing. Then she fucks his mind up. He like Fuck bitches and BAM!! A heartless dude is created. Depending on his future actions he will develop into a bitch ass dude.
So...who is to blame?!?! Honestly it's everybody. From the environment, to the friends, to the relationship. I mean, when have you REALLY seen 2 negative people coincide in a relationship? Two heartless people NEVER mix. Two hoes NEVER last together. One sided relationships are among us regardless. Is there ever a thought in their mind they can use both??? I mean u can play the good guy AND possibly show a bit of resistance? Keep the girl guessing, just don't confuse her. If you really feeling her, don't play games, but don't let her run ya life. Ladies, this can apply to you too. We all want a balance, it's just rare to find it.
Guys like us (yeah that includes me) come in rare groups. Some will see one side or the other, but only the ones you care for will see both. Me personally, I've been on both sides in these types of relationships and I've learned to do both. However, if it wasn't for the nice guys and the assholes, I wouldn't be seen as unique lol. No cockiness here, Jus being real. Respect My Vision Understand My Grind
A dude that doesn't give a fuck ACTUALLY started his life giving a fuck. Crazy right? In a relationship, talkship, or fuckship, there are certain types of limits and boundaries that are taken into consideration...kinda. For some reason, guys are more likely to push the limits and see what will set the female off goin "okay, enough is enough" Unfortunatley, if a girl says nothing, the dude goes crazy with his limits and why?!?! Cuz the girl isn't taking action. Then he takes it upon himself to dip n find a new chick, ignorant to the fact that his ways probably won't work on the next one.
A nice guy on the other hand basically does all the right things in order to make his girl happy. Good right??? WRONG. For some reason, girls like that...to an extent. Soon enough, she tryna test him the same way a bitch ass dude would treat them. They finally get the chance to take advantage so they will push the boundaries. Depending on how much of a good dude he is, he probably won't do a DAMN thing. Then she fucks his mind up. He like Fuck bitches and BAM!! A heartless dude is created. Depending on his future actions he will develop into a bitch ass dude.
So...who is to blame?!?! Honestly it's everybody. From the environment, to the friends, to the relationship. I mean, when have you REALLY seen 2 negative people coincide in a relationship? Two heartless people NEVER mix. Two hoes NEVER last together. One sided relationships are among us regardless. Is there ever a thought in their mind they can use both??? I mean u can play the good guy AND possibly show a bit of resistance? Keep the girl guessing, just don't confuse her. If you really feeling her, don't play games, but don't let her run ya life. Ladies, this can apply to you too. We all want a balance, it's just rare to find it.
Guys like us (yeah that includes me) come in rare groups. Some will see one side or the other, but only the ones you care for will see both. Me personally, I've been on both sides in these types of relationships and I've learned to do both. However, if it wasn't for the nice guys and the assholes, I wouldn't be seen as unique lol. No cockiness here, Jus being real. Respect My Vision Understand My Grind
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